Friday, March 30, 2007

What, exactly, is "Big"?



So, I am asked this question all the time-What is considered a big dick? The answer-"depends." No, I am not copping out of answering. it depends on 5 things:

1)The woman. Every woman is different. I know women with whom a 4 inch partner is way too much and I know women who don't even wince at a footlong.

2)The woman's mood/menstral cycle/arousal level. Those same women that I mentioned in #1 are capable of switching roles in an instance depending on WHEN you ask them. It's a crap shoot but a size queen could like something smaller if you catch at at the right time.

3)Length versus girth. It's the pencil-dicked guy who is 10 inches long that feels he has bragging rights in our society while the Coke can-thick man with the 4 incher may feel inferior. Well that's WRONG. Ask any woman-girth beats length any day and it's time you learn this. I have had thin-dicked guys who are 14 inches long and they didn't get me off nearly as much as those packing a 5-inch thick and a 5-inch long.

4)Foreplay. Make a girl cum before you even put it in and size no longer matters.

5)You. If you act like a dick then most women don't care about your dick. There will always be a man whose BIGGER, you cannot control that. But you can control if YOU are BETTER. Most women see the personality more than the person. Work on being an attentive lover, a giving person and a man of passion and the women will line up for you.

Shalom,

Daphne

5 comments:

Porter said...

Daphne!

OK - I must be crazy, but you never look so beautiful as you do when you're photographed like this. There's something just so delightfully sexy - but beyond the obvious fact that you have a big (subjective opinion aside - that is a big cock) cock in hand... there's something else, some indefinable quantity about you that makes you insanely desirable, in spite of, or more appropriately because of, your wanton ways!

Take care, and thanks for blogging!

Daniel said...

Great insight Daphne. It's refreshing cuz the industry portrays such a limited perception of male sexuality.

Unknown said...

Your feelings about the size of a man's cock are similar to my feelings about the size of a woman's breasts!

A large "cup-size" attracts attention; but the size of the nipples is not as obvious yet much more significant to me. "Hard" nipples are like a "hard" cock ... it shows that you're "aroused" :)

It's amazing how sexy a woman with large nipples can be (and more "down to Earth"), regardless of her breast-size!!!

Women with small breasts and nipples just have to try harder to get noticed; but know that men like myself are "aroused" more by compatibility than anything else :)

Anonymous said...

Daphne,
Not all the women look Romantic, Sexy and beautiful as you do. You've got the perfect made of all.

Markus said...

Is your mother jewish?
or is this some kinda joke, i cant believe she would allow you to do this..